Excellent excellent article that debunks what many people think regarding gay parents. It is a very important read especially when we have morons like Rick Santorium swing things like kids are better off with a parent in jail than to be raised by gay parents. Suck it Rick.
This is one of the many reasons that DOMA needs to go. This poor guy and his family do not even have the paltry defense available that a heterosexual couple would in a removal proceeding nor the option to go through either consular processing or adjustment of status because their relationship is not federally recognized.